I don't want to talk about it

Description

Terrence Real explains how many men, feeling the stigma of depression's 'unmanliness', conceal their condition from their families, friends and even from themselves. He brings into the open a topic that has been ignored for a long period of time.

First Sentence

When I stand beside troubled fathers and sons I am often flooded with a sense of recognition.

Description

Each year, millions of men and women fall prey to depression. While the disorder has been called "psychiatry's most treatable condition," less than one in five get help. In recent years, the silence surrounding depression in women has begun to lift, but only now, with this powerful groundbreaking work, does psychotherapist Terrence Real expose a virtual epidemic of the disorder in men. Twenty years of experience treating men and their families has convinced Terrence Real that there are two forms of depression: "overt" and "covert." Feeling the stigma of depression's "unmanliness," many men hide their condition not only from family and friends but even from themselves. Attempts to escape depression fuel many of the problems we think of as typically male - difficulty with intimacy, workaholism, alcoholism, abusive behavior, and rage. By directing their pain outward, depressed men hurt the people they love, and, most tragically, pass their condition on to their children. A master storyteller, Terrence Real mixes penetrating analysis with poignant, compelling tales of the men and women whom he treats. He writes with passion and searing clarity about his own experiences with depression, as the son of a depressed, violent father, and the father of two young sons.

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Other Editions

• I don't want to talk about it: overcoming the secret legacy of male depressionScribner1997-01-01
• I don't want to talk about itM.H. Gill & Co. U. C.1997-01-01
• I Don't Want to Talk About ItunboundScribner Book Company1997-01-09
• I don't want to talk about itFireside1998-01-01
• I Don't Want to Talk About ItPaperbackScribner1998-03-02